They had to kick me out because I started lifting up the side of the building lol.” Just saying something ridiculous like this could get a laugh out of her, and the placement of that “lol” at the end of the sentence clearly tells her you’re joking around as opposed to just being weird.
Take that “lol” out of the sentence, and it really just comes across as strange.
I've had quite a few relationships at a young age and I wish I'd had someone to give me advice.These girls aren't strangers, they're me, they're my friends, they're all of us. Dating nowadays is seriously complicated and the more attached we get to someone the more confusing it seems to become. It's taken a lot of long and painful lessons for me to work out how to play the dating game and I've often wished someone could have just told me the rules from the start, before I had to learn them the hard way.Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that I've mastered them all or that I've got a perfect track record.For example, if you want to tease a girl but not come across as being too serious, you can say something like “Julie! It’s been forever since I’ve seen you :)” A text like this shows her that you’re inquiring about her and would like to know where she’s been lately. She’s so much more likely to reply to the first as opposed to the second, which is a little too pressing.At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.